formal dress shirts tuxedo The White Madison Fine Twill Custom Shirt if you prefer a looser fitting shirt Slim Fit French Cuff Formal

The dark blue pocket square blends in with the suit, keeping the attention where it belongson the tie

I have a couple vests on rotation, mostly in black or grey shades, and recently added this pretty pink vest from SHEIN (only $20!!) to my wardrobe

While I do love plain colors and no patterns on outfits, I do find that it helps if ONE of you are wearing a non-distracting pattern

boots- option Lean into the colors of the season- red, greens or jewel tones, but mix in something unexpected

And therein lies a tale of what Potter calls sex, lies, and political history. J

Vince Camuto metallic ruched puff sleeve dress, $109, Nordstrom 27